I just purchased and have been furiously reading Michael Hyatts book “Platform”, it has an overwhelming amount of great information about blogging and social media, but something really struck me and has been resonating in me the last few days:
“If we are going to create wow experiences, we must become courageous. This is a personal, psychological bridge we need to cross. What we want to create—that wow experience—is on the other side of the ravine. There’s no other way to get there from here.”
Hyatt, Michael (2012-05-22). Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World (Kindle Locations 634-636). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition.
I thought that was fairly neat as I read, then I continued on and the usually fears cropped up:
* I should be doing something else…
* I should stop reading and look for my lost bluetooth…
* Doing the things in this book will take too long, so why bother…
* Go get a real job and just deal with it…
This is the best way that I can put some of the fears into words, but really it is a dreadful feeling that just wants to deter me from doing ANYTHING. But this quote has really helped me, it pointed out that there would have to be some courage involved! That being said, there would be fears to overcome, inaction to defeat, and sacrifices to be made if I want to get to where I want to be.
The worse fear is the future projection of failure, I have at least a good two solid times (that I can still remember clearly) being in a situation of absolute horror, bills were due, no money was coming in, the job I had at the time was shaky or I was unemployed. The feelings I have had at those times resurface just long enought to say “Don’t go for it, get somewhere safe, keep low, keep quiet, don’t get noticed, they can’t hit what they can’t see…” a terrible mindset and a perfect path to staying mediocre.
I have many ideas that come to my mind and excite my whole being, but I almost never act on them, here is another impressive quote from Hyatts book:
“Listen to your heart. Most of us have spent a lifetime ignoring—or even suppressing—our intuition. I don’t know if this is a product of modern rationalism or American pragmatism. Regardless, I believe intuition is the map to buried treasure. It is not infallible, but neither is our reason. And it can point us in the right direction. We need to pay attention to this inner voice.”
Hyatt, Michael (2012-05-22). Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World (Kindle Locations 682-685). Thomas Nelson. Kindle Edition.
The biggest thing is that listen in this sense means to ACT. To do, if my heart and mind and spirit or whatever is telling me to do a video blog, then I should DO IT. This has been a tough one for me and I still have not got it started, I just dunno what to say on the camera or how to act. Courage, I need it really bad!
So I am asking you, how do you build your courage?
Ender’s Game Audio Book Review
I read “Enders Game” when I was in Elementary school…and I can easily say that I did not absorb a single word of it. Though I did remember the little surprise near the end of the book. It was really interesting to listen to the book and the company that did the recording did a masterful job even with the impersonations of different characters voices. I has to listen to the book in 5 minute intervals to and from work in the morning, coming home for lunch and leaving work for the day. I was fortunate to have a few times where I delivered an oil pump that I could listen for a 2 hour stretch.
Enders Game has an incredible way of showing how a bully to a young child can be torture and also how it can make you stronger if it does not break you. I also really enjoyed how the characters were so young and yet doing amazing things. I wonder how far from fiction this would be if children could be given the opportunity or even the pressure to excel.
I have some quotes that I really liked that were just mind blowing when you stop to think about them for a few minutes:
“Perhaps it’s impossible to wear an identity without becoming what you pretend to be.”
― Orson Scott Card, Ender’s Game
I have found this to be true, the meanest example that I will admit to is when I was really young and was making fun of a kid for stuttering…after a little bit of that it took me a little while to stop stuttering, either way I got my just deserts.
“Humanity does not ask us to be happy. It merely asks us to be brilliant on its behalf.”
― Orson Scott Card, Ender’s Game
This quote rang loud and clear over and over again in my mind. It adds to my theory on how no one cares and it does not make them evil…they just don’t. When you make interactions with people, they need you to work, or to do something or to even listen to them and help them through their problems. But they are not, initially, asking you to be happy, just to be brilliant on their behalf.
“No book, however good, can survive a hostile reading.”
― Orson Scott Card, Ender’s Game
Pretty self-explanatory…a book cannot combat a bias. I on somewhat on the fence about this…if you are really looking for the truth or for understanding a book can whittle away at you. If you are dead set to not be persuaded you will likely not read the book or get very far in it.
“The essence of training is to allow error without consequence.”
― Orson Scott Card, Ender’s Game
Probably my favourite words in the book. So many times I have been terrified in training, when this should have been my mantra.